By David Phillips
That question generally makes me a little nervous when I hear it, because it often implies that there is an issue or a situation that needs the attention of whoever is running things. There is another sense in which that question is even more urgent, and that is the sense of our daily lives.
Peter lists self-control as one of the Christian graces, 2 Peter 1:6, and Paul instructs Titus to instruct 3 specific age groups in the church (older men, young women and younger men) to be self-controlled, Titus 2:2-4 ESV.
Suffice it to say that there is more than ample evidence in Scripture to conclude that God wants all of us to add this very achievable trait to our lives. Many have wanted to excuse themselves in this matter, but consider this: if you are not in control, then who IS in charge?