By David Phillips
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What is the real issue when it comes to modesty? Why is it such a hard topic to discuss and for Christians to come to an agreement on? Is the question really what to/not to wear? Is it defining specific limits on coverage, fit, style, etc.?
In our hearts, we know it isn’t. it’s a standard of behavior, not a standard of dress that is ultimately missing from our lives when we fail to be modest. Our attitude towards God, and what is pleasing to Him, or a lack thereof, is most critical when trying to rationalize modesty in our minds. Is our ultimate goal to fully please God or do we try to see how close to the “proverbial line” we can get and still be acceptable? Are we “all in” or are we trying to be what we consider “close enough”?
Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not – with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly garments, but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim to godliness. (1 Timothy 2:9-10 NASB)
Paul wanted women to dress ‘with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly as is proper for women making a claim to godliness.’ Men, this doesn’t let us Off the hook. We should have the same attitude and approach to modesty. The principle is for all Christians and we should be setting the example for our families in this matter.
A high standard of behavior, which directly influences our standard of dress, is what we are to focus on each day of our lives. This standard calls us to be different from the world: the trends, the culture and the leanings Of the modern society. Christians can be fashionable and “in style” and still be within God’s expectations. However, we must ensure that we truly use God’s expectations as the standard ….not the expectations of the world. The standard Of behavior that we strive to exhibit calls us to align our spiritual life With our outward life in all things, willing to make personal sacrifices in order to do so.
Setting standards is not legalistic or Old fashioned; it is simply the right thing to do. Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.” (John 14:15)